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I don't know why, but I finally felt like sharing it.
Not just because men (and women) treat you differently or because single women can be competitive, but because I am my own worst enemy.
I’ve been on the receiving end of some rather shocking insults I never would have dreamt a person could say.
One I’ll never forget: “Your shape is not desirable to me.” At least he tried to make it sound like a business transaction.
I had to walk between the three men in order to get the the bathroom.
As I approached them, I became slightly self conscious because the back of my hair was bone straight, while the front was a curly mess on the top of my head.
Yesterday I decided to get my hair blown out and straightened (not the smartest decision considering its raining today, but whatever.) The woman who does my hair moved to a unisex hair salon in Harlem, so I made my way over to see her.
It was a Sunday and the place was more or less empty.
It’s downright tough to leverage myself into a cluster of people waiting for drinks at a bar. Sometimes the skinny girl’s easy, fun night out in Hollywood is the fat girl’s night of stressful geographic strategy.
On a more personal level, I’ve found that oftentimes, men can be cruel.
I wrote this for the Bold Italic, for whom I had a short-lived freelance writing career.
They wanted something honest about being my size and dating in Los Angeles.
Even the guy getting his hair cut, who had his back to me, found a way to check me out in the mirrors reflection. Although I couldn’t see who was saying what, I kept my ears peeled as they continued to talk on the other side of the room.